1. Establish what it is that makes you feel sexy; is it jeans, is it just the idea of sex, perfume, just being yourself, a mini skirt, what?  
2. Exercise more, eat healthy
3. Relax, enjoy the moment
4. Be bold-take the initiative, even make the first move (ladies) at least once in a while….make him feel he is desired too…
5. Experiment; you never know which ‘right’ button you might push
6. Have a quickie at lunch time
7. Delay penetration; let the foreplay last-make him/her beg  (not only verbally  body expression is everything..)
8. Suprise her/him; do something you have never done before to him/her.
9. Try something kinky and wild (not necessarily group sex……)
10. Masturbate to establish THAT ’spot’ so you can eventually lead him there…..
11. Become a student; learn all you can, observe, maybe even ask questions….

And finally…….talk about sex!!!!!!!!!!!

 Anymore ideas out there?