Was at a house party with Audrey(who i hadn’t seen in a while).

We’d both gone our separate ways each  on a self-discovery mission to establish whether we were really bisexual or it was just one of those passing fads.

Here were were again together after all this time.

On the way to the party she’d kept asking whether we could rekindle the flame we once had. I had no answer. I did not know whether i would still feel the same way about her and for her after such a long time. 

All around us, the ladies and men were drinking, dancing, talking, smoking and laughing. Audrey on the other hand was flirting with me-using her eyes and her lips(those ohh so full lips that have the power to do wonders down there) with a gap between the teeth made it even harder for me not to get distracted! I pitied the man who was trying to ‘dart’ her-couldn’t he tell she wasn’t even paying attention?!!

She was all the way across the room and yet i had a feeling everyone was noticing it. I kinda liked it but then i felt like she was overdoing it-especially when she started to lick that cigar. 

I was in shock-it seemed like she had developed an even more bolder personality since we parted. I wondered what else had changed.

I decided i had to walk over to her and tell her that she had made the point clear but that she ought to stop. Tell her we could talk about it later…

As i started to talk, she interupted me, “Come this way, i want to show you something,” she quiped, leading me to the furthest washrooms of the house, blurbbing  about something she’d discovered.

On the floor, right next to the bath tub were magazines-all of them revealing intricate details of sex. She pulls out one and excitedly yells, ‘This one’.

Its Passie. I guess the brains behind the magazine did not want to call it Pussies yet all it showed was pussies of all sizes and shapes, yet not a single black one.

Audrey asked me to sit down so we could go through it together. She pointed out to a picture of one where two women were making out and said that she liked that and i pointed out to another one of two women and said that i liked that.

We sat there in silence going through the Passie magazine like two kids who were watching cartoons for the first time .

Then she asked me again, “Can we rekindle what we once had.” Before i could answer her, her lips had covered mine and my being seemed like it was melting right into the bath tub…..

You go out with someone, the conversation is interesting, the dancing is amazing and all inhibitions seem like they just flew right outta the window(thanks to alcohol)

But then there’s the kiss right outside the gate-the kiss that arouses those hungers within, the kiss that talks louder than the words-’I want you’

You both want each other so bad and yes you are ready but then something is stopping you from saying yes….

“Do not light fires that you cannot cool off” guys say. 

I wonder, is it that bad?

You are bound to agonize over a couple of ‘What ifs’ … the next day. But then you also see the other side of the coin….it was beautiful just leaving it as it was coz the desire is still there and whether or not something eventually happens in future-that desire is still right there at the back of you mind or at the very base of your sexuality.

This translates into a sexual energy that when eventually released (and only by the object of your desire) will it be sizzling hot!!!!!!

A few days ago, on a normal coffee shop discussion, someone asked me a question; 

Do lesbians in Kenya practise safe sex?

What about those school going young girls who have just been introduced to the practise?

Other than choosing a partner carefully and maybe taking a test before starting a serious relationship; how else can lesbians practise safe sex?

“Dress up that dildo with a durex condom before you share it?” Are students allowed to go with condoms to school; if so, what reasons do they give. And are these the same schools where we are hearing sex toys are being smuggled and a dildo being shared amongst 5 young girls?

With the practise of oral sex in most lesbian relationships, how can protected sex even be an option for lesbians? In other states, most of ‘em chose not to use barries/protectors;- apparently because the whole experience loses its essence. Another reason being that the only protectors/barries that are available like self-made ’sex panties’, latex golves and saran wraps are really uncomfortable. 

Do they even understand the risks involved in the practise; especially in a community like ours where a lot happens behind the closet; even lesbian meetings/communities which can be used for education are also very secretive. You won’t even know they exist until you actually attend one!

 The worst thing is that most people, hide their true sexuality (even get married)  and unleash their true nature only when they get the chance. How is this bad?-when are the times one feels extremely daring? 

Mostly when they are ‘high’..which is probably when they go out dancing n drinkin. And maybe even eventually end up having a one night stand with the lass who takes her fancy

Almost a year ago, VCT centres said they had counselling sessions for gay people; have they implemented this and are lesbians visiting these places without feeling stigmatized?

 Is information and education on how lesbians can protect themselves available? And is the information disseminated in the right way-without degradading them?

 How far have scientific efforts gone to develop items lesbians can use to protect themselves?

 REMEMBER; There are no condoms for lesbians…….

Do you know why Kenyans are considered the most astute business people
in East Africa? Read the story below,,,,,,,,,,,,DAMN!!!!

A couple both age 37, went to a sex therapist’s office.  
The doctor asked, “What can I do for you?”
The man said “Will you watch us have sexual intercourse?”
The doctor looked puzzled, but agreed.

When the couple finished having intercourse, the doctor said ”  
There is nothing wrong with the way you have intercourse.” and
charged them kSH 1400.
This happened several weeks in a row. The   couple would make an
appointment, have intercourse with no problems, pay the doctor then leave. Finally, the doctor asked, ” Just exactly, what are you trying to
find out?”
The man said, “We’re not trying to find out anything. She is married
and we cant go to her house. I am married and we cant go to my house.