The first time is like a crystal that will always float somewhere in your consciousness.

“I’d really love someone to tie me up and beat me up,” she blurted out one day. Actually, it wasn’t one day; it was about three different occasions before I started seriously thinking about doing it to her. A lot of people fantasize about being tied up and made-love to like this but not everyone cares to admit this or even knows it until it happens. So why did I take so long before I decided to fulfill her desire? See, I’d never done it to a woman before and I wasn’t sure I’d do it right, ie. The perfect balance of pain and pleasure, so yes, I was a bit nervous. Luckily, I’ve had it done to me before and I just tried to remember aspects I liked and those I didn’t like about the experience. That evening, we’d gone for some Ethiopian and had had a few glasses of alcohol. I can’t really tell you what gave me the guts to do it but as soon as we got home, I tied her up to the bed and grabbed this really nice wide belt I own but have never worn (with pretty hot metal and diamond piece on one side) and started to softly land the belt all over her body eventually increasing the pace and impact. At first, she was just moaning, then the moaning turned to tiny screams and I began to worry our neighbours would hear us but..I went on anyway.. At this point, you get so turned on by all the screaming, twisting, turning, submission, and all the sounds (like belt upon skin). You just want to stop and give it or get it from her. And both of you are drifting to another level….and within no time she wants you to stop and give it or get it. Depending on your level of control, you can choose to stop the pain/pleasure and fulfill all that desire and excitement you have built up. So lets just say this, even if you’ve never done it before-give it a try if he asks for it or even gives the slightest suggestion that he/she likes it. Nothing compares to the then and after effect of BDSM. The first time is like a crystal that will always float somewhere in your consciousness.